{"id":1382,"date":"2013-07-19T07:29:16","date_gmt":"2013-07-19T07:29:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/monochromist.com\/2013\/07\/19\/we-find-out-the-heart-only-by-dismantling-what\/"},"modified":"2013-07-19T07:29:16","modified_gmt":"2013-07-19T07:29:16","slug":"we-find-out-the-heart-only-by-dismantling-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/monochromist.com\/notes\/2013\/07\/19\/we-find-out-the-heart-only-by-dismantling-what\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

We find out the heart only by dismantling what
\nthe heart knows. By redefining the morning,
\nwe find a morning that comes just after darkness.
\nWe can break through marriage into marriage.
\nBy insisting on love we spoil it, get beyond
\naffection and wade mouth-deep into love.
\nWe must unlearn the constellations to see the stars.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Jack Gilbert, from \u201cTear It Down" (via litverve<\/a>)<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We find out the heart only by dismantling what the heart knows. By redefining the morning, we find a morning that comes just after darkness. We can break through marriage into marriage. By insisting on love we spoil it, get beyond affection and wade mouth-deep into love. We must unlearn the constellations to see the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"quote","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-quote","hentry","category-video_graphics","post_format-post-format-quote"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5sGHy-mi","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2260,"url":"https:\/\/monochromist.com\/notes\/2013\/05\/14\/anoncentral-culture-marriage-and-freedom\/","url_meta":{"origin":1382,"position":0},"title":"anoncentral: Culture, Marriage and Freedom","author":"monochromist","date":"May 14, 2013","format":"gallery","excerpt":"anoncentral: Culture, Marriage and Freedom","rel":"","context":"In "motion"","block_context":{"text":"motion","link":"https:\/\/monochromist.com\/notes\/category\/video_graphics\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/monochromist.com\/notes\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/tumblr_mmjliobjVy1re4ucoo1_1280.png?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":1199,"url":"https:\/\/monochromist.com\/notes\/2013\/07\/26\/void-dance-for-the-first-time-i-thought-of\/","url_meta":{"origin":1382,"position":1},"title":"void-dance: For the first time\u2026","author":"monochromist","date":"July 26, 2013","format":"gallery","excerpt":"void-dance: For the first time I thought of marriage. 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