absence / absence

But isn’t desire always the same, whether the object is present or absent? Isn’t the object always absent? —This isn’t the same languor: there are two words: Pothos, desire for the absent being, and Himéros, the more burning desire for the present being.

Roland Barthes, The Absent One from A Lover’s Discourse, translation by Richard Howard (via frenchtwist)

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